Friday, February 6, 2015

Valentine's - A Day of Love


    I have spent hours looking at love quotes on the internet, trying to find one to share on this blog. I realize that there are just too many to find only one. I never thought there would be so many different ways to say I love you. Seems like it would be a simple thing right? Well it isn’t as easy as all that. There are funny ones, really mushy ones, thoughtful, enlightening, sad, some that are geared to family, children.. and the list goes on and on. 
     So on this Valentine’s day, how do you tell that someone special in your life how you feel? Well, you could spend hours, as I did, finding the right words to express them, or (and I think this is the way to go), simply try and say it in your own way.  Trust me, even if the words are fumbled and misconstrued, or it’s long winded and corny, it will have come from you. Your heart, your feelings, which means more to that someone than anything you find on line or in a hallmark card.
    Of course you also have those that would like also to express their love with buying that perfect gift (along with that wonderful card you wrote). There are many choices out there for you, jewelry, chocolates, my personal favorite – flowers, a night on the town, dinning out, or a spa treatment. The list goes on and on. So again, you have decisions to make don’t you? Well, each person has their own likes and preferences, so that is something you need to figure out on your own.
     If you want my advise (well even if you don’t) here is what I think is a perfect Valentine ’s Day from my honey. The day should start with a surprise breakfast in bed served on a tray with a single rose (very romantic), the other 11 roses should be in a vase in the living room with rose petals around it, so as you come down stairs, again more surprises (and I do like flowers). Then the day should be spent doing something together. Depending on the weather, a nice walk in the woods, or mountain with my honey (and the dog) is always nice.  Then maybe a cozy diner, someplace with a fireplace would be good. Or at home, by the fireplace is ok too, as long as it has ambiance, quiet music, candle light.. you get the idea. The rest of the evening, well, it is Valentine’s Day..lol. But it doesn’t matter what you do, where you go, as long as you spend it with the one you love, because that is what Valentine ’s Day is all about, being with the one you love!
   So Happy Valentine ’s Day to all our hopeless romantics out there (like me). I hope you enjoy your day with your loved one!